Meet Our Executive Director,
Virginia Cuvilje Gray

Virginia Cuvilje Gray brings more than 20 years of senior living leadership experience to Asbury Ivy Gables, guiding communities with purpose, connection, and resident-centered care. A licensed Nursing Home Administrator, she is recognized for creating welcoming environments where residents feel at home and associates are empowered to serve with meaning.

Her people-first leadership style reflects Asbury’s mission to do all the good we can, with a focus on innovation, inclusion, and exceptional hospitality. Virginia is dedicated to ensuring residents enjoy enriching experiences while fostering a supportive workplace for associates.

Outside of work, Virginia enjoys baking, hosting meals and game nights, and spending time with her husband, two young adult children, and their three cockapoos—Winston, Wesley, and Buster.

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About Asbury Ivy Gables

Located in Wilmington, DE, Ivy Gables is proud to be a trusted choice for senior living, assisted living, and memory care for seniors in New Castle County, DE. Our beautiful campus features a historic stone manor house and an adjacent building with modern, light-filled senior living residences.

Owned and operated by George and Tammy Loudon for many decades, Ivy Gables was acquired by Asbury Communities, Inc., in December 2023. Asbury is among the nation’s 20- largest not-for-profit systems of continuing care retirement communities, according to the LeadingAge Ziegler 200 List. With a Mission of exploring possibilities to live our best lives, Asbury is committed to doing all the good we can.

With a focus on the future and an emphasis on harnessing technology to improve health and services for those we serve, innovating cutting-edge brain health programs and well-being spaces, and strong financial stewardship, we are addressing the needs of tomorrow’s seniors.

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Why Choose Asbury Ivy Gables

Asbury Ivy Gables is a rental community for seniors that joined the Asbury Communities system in 2023. A national leader in not-for-profit retirement living and aging services, Asbury has been delivering Mission-focused care and services for older adults for close to 100 years.

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About Asbury Communities

Asbury Communities’ heritage is rooted in the Methodist Church. In fact, Asbury was established in Gaithersburg, Md., in 1926 as a home for aging parishioners.

Today, Asbury welcomes people of all beliefs, cultures, and backgrounds and is not affiliated with the Methodist Church. However, we continue to live the faith-based values of Methodism founder John Wesley, who urged his followers to “Do all the good you can . . . as long as ever you can.”

With 11 senior living communities in Delaware, Maryland, Pennsylvania, and Tennessee, Asbury proudly serves 4,300 seniors and 2,800 associates. Asbury is committed to redefining the expectations of aging.

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Talk with an Expert

We have helped guide hundreds of families and seniors through the process of researching their options. We are ready to answer your questions about how Ivy Gables can support your needs today and in the future. Give us a call. We are happy to talk.