Get to Know Asbury Ivy Gables: Senior Living in Wilmington, DE
Our Story & Our Community
Asbury Ivy Gables is a trusted choice for senior living in Wilmington, DE, offering senior health services, including assisted living and memory care, for families throughout New Castle County. Our beautiful campus features a historic stone manor house alongside modern, light-filled senior living residences designed for comfort and connection.
Originally owned and operated by George and Tammy Loudon for many decades, Ivy Gables joined Asbury Communities, Inc. in December 2023. Asbury ranks among the nation’s 20 largest not-for-profit systems of continuing care retirement communities, according to the LeadingAge Ziegler 200 List.
With an innovative mission focused on technology-driven health innovation, cutting-edge brain health programs, inviting wellness spaces, and strong financial stewardship, Asbury Ivy Gables is built to meet the evolving needs of today’s and tomorrow’s seniors.
Meet Our Executive Director,
Virginia Cuvilje Gray
Virginia Cuvilje Gray brings more than 20 years of senior living leadership experience to Asbury Ivy Gables, guiding our Delaware senior living community with purpose, connection, and resident-centered care. A licensed Nursing Home Administrator, she is recognized for creating welcoming environments where residents feel at home, and associates are empowered to serve with meaning.
Her people-first leadership style reflects Asbury’s mission to do all the good we can, with a focus on innovation, inclusion, and exceptional hospitality. Virginia is dedicated to ensuring residents enjoy enriching experiences while fostering a supportive, meaningful workplace for associates.
Outside of her work with senior living in Wilmington, Virginia enjoys baking, hosting meals and game nights, and spending time with her husband, two young adult children, and their three cockapoos—Winston, Wesley, and Buster.
Why Choose Asbury Ivy Gables
Asbury Ivy Gables is a community for senior living in Wilmington that joined the Asbury system in 2023. A leader in not-for-profit aging services and senior living in Delaware, Asbury has been delivering mission-focused care for older adults for nearly 100 years. Whether you’re exploring assisted living, memory care, or our services and amenities, we invite you to discover what sets Asbury senior living apart.
beautiful acres
friendly residents
helpful associates
About Asbury Senior Living
Asbury Communities’ heritage is rooted in the Methodist Church. Founded in Gaithersburg, MD, in 1926 as a home for aging parishioners, Asbury has grown into a mission-driven leader for senior living in Delaware, Maryland, and Pennsylvania.
Today, Asbury welcomes people of all beliefs, cultures, and backgrounds and is not affiliated with the Methodist Church. However, we continue to live by the values of Methodism founder John Wesley, who urged followers to “Do all the good you can…as long as ever you can.”
Across nine communities, Asbury proudly serves 4,300 seniors and 2,800 associates, remaining deeply committed to redefining the expectations of aging. Asbury Ivy Gables is honored to bring that same commitment to senior living in Wilmington and the surrounding Delaware community.
Frequently Asked Questions
Have questions about senior living in Wilmington, DE? We’ve answered some of the most common ones below. You can also visit our blog for helpful resources or contact our team directly. We’re happy to help!
Asbury Ivy Gables is known for providing compassionate, resident-centered senior living in Wilmington, DE, with a strong reputation for assisted living and memory care. As part of Asbury Communities, one of the nation’s largest not-for-profit senior living systems, we combine a close-knit community feel with the expertise and innovation of a nationally recognized organization. Families throughout New Castle County trust us to provide exceptional care, enriching lifestyle programming, and a warm, welcoming environment for their loved ones.
Asbury Ivy Gables offers assisted living and memory care as part of our senior health services in Wilmington, DE. As a rental community for senior living in Delaware, there is no large buy-in required, giving families the flexibility to choose the level of care that best fits their loved one’s needs.
As part of Asbury Communities, Asbury Ivy Gables combines the warmth of a close-knit Wilmington community with the expertise and resources of one of the nation’s largest not-for-profit senior living organizations. Our historic campus, mission-driven care philosophy, and focus on innovation, brain health, and resident well-being set us apart from other senior living communities in Delaware. Explore our services and amenities to see the difference for yourself.
Choosing the right level of care is one of the most important decisions a family can make. Assisted living is designed for seniors who value their independence but could benefit from support with activities of daily living, such as bathing, dressing, and medication management. Memory care provides a secure, structured environment for those living with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia. Our team is happy to help guide your family to find the right fit. Contact us to start the conversation.
Scheduling a tour is easy, and it’s the best way to experience our community, meet our team, and find the right fit for your loved one. Contact us to arrange a visit at a time that works for you. You can also explore our blog for helpful resources as you navigate your senior living search, or RSVP for an upcoming event to get a true sense of community life at Asbury Ivy Gables.